Bruce And Anna-Marie Levy
As a teen it was not easy to have a stepmother who had to deal with me and my 4 brothers. Elaine had no experience with children, and had no siblings. This was not easy, I am sure for any of us. I learned as a teen that Elaine is different from others in our family. A woman who was accomplished in her field, intelligent and headstrong in her beliefs and who saw the world with fewer shades of gray than I did (or most of those in my family). She was a bit of a polarizing figure. She was easy to blame for the things that were not going well as we were growing up. Some probably true and some probably not true. Then as we got older she remained polarizing. Those of us who kept relationships with Dad and Elaine got to enjoy a warm, caring cheerful woman who would do anything for us, loved to see us and shared her caring liberally.
Elaine had a few things in particular that she devoted a great deal of time, and energy and love. Her career as a medical technologist provided her with a good income, a sense of accomplishment and a place to devote her intellectual gifts. Elaine and my father had a large group of friends in and around Boynton. Becoming a friend of Elaine and Joe meant that they were there for you in the good times and the more difficult times. As I am sure my father will rely on these friends at this time, Elaine and dad could be counted to share the wonderful experiences, and the times of need as they aged. Their many friends are a testament to her caring and devotion. Elaine loved ice skating and for years traveled to various competitions to experience firsthand the beauty of this sport and the competition. She also made many friends with those who shared these trips. Elaine was a Hadassah member for decades and those who participated with her in this organization know just what a strong organizer and fundraiser she could be. She loved opera, Jewish related films and her many crafts.
I know that it took years for me to realize that the most important role that Elaine had in our family was that she was a great choice for my father. This is the relationship he needed. My father was in love with Elaine at first sight, or shortly thereafter. When I last saw them together in March, and as I write, Dad is still in love with her. To have such a love to share, seems very rare. I am thankful my father got to enjoy that. I know that my father is blessed with years and years of wonderful memories he shared with Elaine. I hope dad can take the blessings of her memory and venture forward, as I believe she would have wanted.